What if we questioned everything

we've been taught about being human?

What is
Opt-Out Institute?


OOI is a space to question the inherited set of default assumptions about what it means to struggle, to suffer, and to offer (or receive) help.

Emotional pain is assumed to be a symptom of illness requiring medical treatment. Care is a service you pay for.

For many of us, being human has come to mean being a patient—often indefinitely.

Opting out is a practice of noticing those inherited stories, stepping outside them, and discovering what's actually true about yourself.

OOI offers resources, support, and community for people at every stage of that process.

Where to start:
Fortify & Focus


A three-phase group coaching program for the
journey beyond psychiatric drugs and diagnoses

Fortify & Focus is for people who are considering tapering, currently tapering, or finished tapering off psychiatric drugs — and who want support for everything
the clinical world doesn't address.

Over three months, you'll work through a structured cycle of reflection, gain access to resources that expand how you see yourself and your struggles, and meet regularly with a group of people who actually understand.

Built for people who are
asking different questions.

You're deep in psychiatric drug withdrawal and desperate for people who actually understand — and for resources to help you figure out where to go from here.

You received a psychiatric diagnosis in your twenties and are now, a decade later, questioning whether that story still fits — or ever did.

You're a parent watching your kid get flagged at school, handed a referral, and something about the whole sequence feels off but you don't have language for it yet.

You've been in therapy for years, you're basically fine, and you're also not getting better — and you've started to wonder whether the therapeutic frame itself is part of what's keeping you stuck.

If you're here, you already know this feeling.

About Our Founder


Laura Delano

I was put on my first psychiatric drug at fourteen. By twenty-seven, I was on five simultaneously, had accumulated a long list of diagnoses, and had been hospitalized four times. I was disabled and dependent on my family, unable to work or sustain relationships, and I’d spent well over a decade unable to interpret my own experience without clinical authority. I was completely convinced that my inner turmoil was a medical problem requiring ongoing professional management. I didn’t experience any of this as harm. I experienced it as help that would one day, hopefully, fix me.

In 2010, after realizing that it wasn’t “treatment-resistant mental illness” that had caused my life to fall apart, but largely the treatment itself, I came off psychiatric drugs far too fast—without understanding how slowly they actually need to be tapered. 

I assumed that getting myself off those meds meant the hard work was over. 

I had no idea that it was actually just beginning.